Sanobar’s Newsletter

The Daughters You Raised. The Sons You Didn’t.

How I refuse to keep ‘peace’ in the family

Jul 16 • 

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April 2025

Flawed God

Telling the Story I Once Couldn't Bear to Remember

Apr 28 • 

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2:55

March 2025

January 2025

69: Cosmic Joke or the Universe Vibing?

Driving to work, I’ve spotted three cars in less than 15 minutes with the number 69 on their plates.

Jan 28 • 

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I Hate New Year's Eve

Ranting over the pursuit of the 'perfect celebration' as a 'perfect family'

Jan 1 • 

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December 2024

A Fistful of Time

What to Hold On To and What to Let Go Of

Dec 18, 2024 • 

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November 2024

Movember 2024: Confessing My Hypocrisies as a Feminist on My Husband’s B'Day

Before November gets over in two days, I’d like to seize the opportunity of Movember to talk about men’s mental health.

Nov 28, 2024 • 

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Why Don't You Write Your Story?

Finding Courage in Family Drama and Personal Truths

Nov 4, 2024 • 

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October 2024

A Letter to My Children

Reflections on our journey so far

Oct 23, 2024 • 

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Summer of 2024

This summer, my mother spoke a new language with me; soaking methi overnight in a copper tumbler

Oct 1, 2024 • 

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September 2024

Making Peace With Guilt

Guilt has always shown in the form of punishment for me - a guest I’d invited out of obligation and who’s now overstayed their visit.

Sep 24, 2024 • 

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My Substack Summer

What I read in Summer 2024

Sep 20, 2024

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